was sitting in basic restaurant, stellenosch, this afternoon with martina. the owner is a midget and somehow martina and i started a discussion on how much chances does a midget have in dating. i do not remember how it started but here are some ideas about midget dating chances.

starting arguments were two prejudices that women do choose partners first on the basis of power so looks is far in the second place to social position and social intelligence (which amount to power), and that women focus more on details like eyes, etc so how different the whole body is not so important as to how some details work out.

i do not like such prejudice but it was one of the starting arguments…

most women might not like a midget cause of the instinct to resist bad genes, but more intelligent/sophisticated women might be attracted exactly cause of they are different. being attracted to different is good for genes and there is always a % of population which goes a bit too far with this. again all this is retarded prejudice just for the sake of a stupid argument… i really have no idea what i am talking about…

so if there is a % of people who go for different, some of them cause they want something super different because of some subconscious urge to improve the species, they might go for a midget. example is how many people do consume midget porn or stuff like that. some of it is fucked up i guess but it is an example of how things develop between humans.

so if there is a % of these people in every society and if you cross-reference it to % of midgets in he same society it turns out that there are far more people interested in extreme different and midgets than they would be in anything else.

there are more women who really would want to date and try a midget per midget than in case of a photo model for example.

i am not really into well organized writing today but you get my point…

does it work out if you are extremely different and you always end up having more people interested, than being super general so everybody is interested but little bit… these are surely not only two options…

i will try to talk to the owner of basic restaurant, stellenbosch, maybe… and get his view on things… but that could be very subjective and not really a reliable conclusion.
second was that most men’s bodies are fucked up, i mean, people my generation are hardly handsome, a lot of them are fat slobs who can not do much physically. so being a midget does not seem like a huge disadvantage since most people do not much with their genetically appropriate bodies. ok, if you are in boulder or california or some olympic training center this could not work but in most places men look like shit after 25…

this argument makes some sense…